IN the News – Do you LIKE me – even if I’m married? Facebook cited as marriage-buster

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/facebook-ruining-marriage-social-network-named-a-divorce-filings-2011-article-1.1083913?localLinksEnabled=false

INsight – “Hard because it’s worth it”

If we’re meant to love, why must it be so hard?

Because it is worth it.

Ask the mother who has endured hours of labor and even surgery if the pain and exhaustion were hard.  Ask the student who has spent night after night, day after day with their head buried in their studies if the years of school have been hard.  Ask the husband of that wife and the father of that student if those events were hard! 

And they would all say yes.  Now ask the mother as she holds her child, the student as they cross the stage and the husband and father as he beams with joy if these events were worth it: they will say yes.

Love is hard because it’s worth it. Marriage, relationships are constantly tested and they test us in return.  Why?  Because the rewards are so great. 

Good life, good love

 

CH & the IW

IN the News – Til Reset Do Us Part – Video games & relationships

What Video Games Teach Us About Marriage – http://kotaku.com/5904870/what-video-games-teach-us-about-marriage

 

 

 

IN the News – “But baby, her feelings meant nothing to me!”

Are you having ‘emotional sex?” – http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-04-27/man-woman/31421002_1_chat-friend-platonic-emotional-support

 

 

 

IN the News – Sex drives relationships into the ground?

http://www.chicagotribune.com/features/tribu/sc-fam-0410-disappearing-sex-20120410,0,7386017.story

INbetween the Sheets – Microwaves and ovens

Men, women get aroused like ovens and stoves – it takes time and they need “pre-heating.” Consider the old adage that a woman’s orgasm starts in her ears first. Ladies, men get aroused like microwaves – it doesn’t take much time or many buttons to push. There’s no old adage for that!

Remembering each other’s arousal styles and speeds can alleviate frustration and miscommunication. Now go and warm each other up.

Good life, good love,

CH & the IW

IN the News – The Myths of why we break up – The REAL reasons!

Not sex and not money – the real reasons we go our separate ways!

http://www.sacbee.com/2012/03/07/4317781/therapists-shatter-myths-on-why.html

INsights – Too much information

You’re in love.  You want to share everything.  But there is such a thing as TMI (Too Much Information.)  Ladies, we don’t need details of your periods or your bathroom experiences or any non-life threatening hygiene issues.  At the risk of sounding sexist, we need to keep the fantasy alive – we know you have gas, diarrhea and other bodily functions but we do not need this knowledge confirmed.  There is such a thing as too much information.

 

IN the News – Ladies, go online to get your sugar daddy

Sugar Daddy sites a growing phenomenon on the internet – http://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/news/article.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=10786667

IN the News – Cheating sites for Married people – Flourishing?????

http://yourlife.usatoday.com/sex-relationships/story/2012-02-13/Sites-that-cater-to-discreet-encounters-thriving/53084600/1